You know that moment in a rom-com when the couple rides off into the sunset after the big wedding scene? Well, that’s what a honeymoon should feel like. Your honeymoon should be perfect, no matter where it is, be it somewhere in London, Italy, Phuket, again just anywhere. There shouldn’t be any alarm clocks, no drama, no emails about “just one quick thing.” Just sun-kissed mornings, spontaneous adventures, and evenings that feel like you’ve stepped into a postcard.
But really, the perfect honeymoon doesn’t need to be a carbon copy of someone else’s Pinterest board. Sure, everyone nowadays wants that social media perfect wedding and honeymoon, but that doesn’t matter, really, it doesn’t. It just needs to feel like yours, but on the kind of level that makes your friends say, “Wait, are you in a movie right now?”
Basically, something straight out of a Hollywood film would be great, but where do you start?
Pick a Spot that Feels Like Perfection
For starters, a honeymoon isn’t the time to settle for “cute enough” or “it’ll do.” This is the trip that kicks off your married life, so go big on the vibes. Just picture this: coastal villages with pastel buildings, cobblestone streets that lead to hidden wine bars, and views so good you stop mid-sentence just to stare.
Italy is basically the blueprint for this kind of honeymoon. It’s dramatic in the best way. Amalfi is dripping in romance, Capri is straight out of a magazine, and even a casual afternoon in a sleepy town like Ravello can turn into a full-blown fairytale. It’s got that luxurious, timeless thing going without ever feeling stuffy.
Don’t Let the Travel Days Drag You Down
In all seriousness, there’s absolutely nothing out there that kills the newlywed feeling faster than an exhausting travel day where everything feels rushed and chaotic. People are so guilty of doing this, so why do it during your honeymoon? That’s basically the worst time to do it.
So, you really need to upgrade the little things. For example, just go ahead and book the comfy seats. Schedule a layover that gives you enough time to breathe and maybe grab a snack that doesn’t come in plastic wrap. Just generally speaking, those small comforts go a long way when you’re running on love and three hours of sleep.
Then once you’re there, make your arrival a whole moment. Pulling up to your hotel in a basic shuttle? Yeah, sure, that’s fine. But arriving by private boat or vintage convertible? Well, that’s honestly starting everything off on the right foot (and can set the tone for the rest of the trip).
Go All In on One Ridiculously Romantic Experience
Or multiple if you have the money for it (or if there are options for other luxury-related things). Alright, so here’s the thing: you don’t need to pack your itinerary with five-star dinners every night and back-to-back excursions. Sure, that’s insanely romantic, but not necessary. Okay, but with that said, you do need at least one moment that makes your jaw drop. Something you’ll still be talking about on your tenth anniversary.
Well, want an idea that never fails? Why not charter a yacht in Italy? Seriously. Just spend an afternoon sailing along the coast, drinking prosecco while the sea sparkles and the cliffs of Positano glow in the sun. Then have dinner on deck, just the two of you, watching the sunset turn the sky into a watercolor painting. You don’t have to deal with a loud restaurant.
There are no distractions; instead, just salt air, great food, and the best company. It’s almost too romantic. Almost.
Make Room for Lazy Days
A luxury honeymoon doesn’t have to mean every minute is planned. In fact, the real flex is having absolutely nothing to do… and loving it. Ideally, you should just sleep in. Order room service in your robe. Maybe even read a book by the pool and then take a nap halfway through the first chapter. It’s your honeymoon, not a field trip.
Add Personal Touches that Feel Like Both of You
The trip should feel luxe, but it should still feel like the two of you. It’s the same for your wedding, the experience needs to feel very much up your all’s alley. But generally speaking, the personal details don’t need to be big. They just need to mean something. Those are the things that’ll tug at your heart a little when you think back later.
Besides, why would you both do something that just isn’t your thing, right?
